Holy Living in Our Relationships

Jude 1:20-25; Philippians 2:14-16; Romans 12:9-13

by David Woods

Read Jude 1:20-25

Discussion: What does it mean to have a healthy self-esteem? What does it look like?

According to the "Introduction", "Holiness is directly related to our self-image…."

Discussion: How does holiness help us have a healthy self-esteem? How is holiness related to our self-image?

Discussion: Why must we "keep ourselves" in God's love? Can we slip from His love? If so, how? If not, why not?

Discussion: Compare verses twenty-one and twenty-four.
(Note: The first paragraph of "Working With The Word" discusses this paradox.)

Read Philippians 2:14-16

Discussion: Why is true holiness free of complaining and griping?

Consider the great implications of verses fifteen and sixteen. Christians can live in victory over sin - over all sin. But this is not just a possibility. Christians, at least entirely sanctified Christians, do live in victory over sin.

This is not to say that entirely sanctified Christians never fail and sin; yet it is to say that it is abnormal and contradictory for a Christian to claim holiness and yet not be able to live in victory over sin.

Reflection: Are you living blameless and harmless before your Lord and Saviour?

Read Romans 12:9-13

Discussion: How do you recognize fake love?

Reflection: Do we truly "abhor" evil? Do we utterly detest all evil?

Discussion: What does it mean to honor others on a day-to-day?

Discussion: How is holiness compromised by laziness?

Discussion: Of these different characteristics and commands concerning the life of holiness, what are the top three for which you most need improvement in your life?

Discussion: How can we encourage practice of these principles in our local church?

Big Idea: Holiness of heart results in holy living.